They Hurt You & Played the Victim

Let’s tell the truth:

There’s a different kind of heartbreak that comes when the person who hurt you rewrites the story—then casts you as the villain.

You’re left confused, spinning, questioning your own memory, your own heart, your own instincts.

They stabbed you in the back and then turned around crying, bleeding from a wound they caused.

If you’ve ever felt that—I see you.

And no, you’re not being dramatic.

You’re not making it up.

And you’re not too sensitive.

You’re someone who loved deeply.

You trusted. You showed up. You let your guard down.

And they used that against you.

This isn’t a post about revenge. It’s not about rehashing or rage.

This is a truth break. A moment to reclaim your clarity. Your voice. Your peace.

Let it be known:

• Just because someone cries louder doesn’t mean they were the one who was cut.

• Just because someone performs victimhood doesn’t mean you caused their pain.

• Just because you choose stillness now doesn’t mean you didn’t fight like hell for the truth.

You don’t have to prove your side anymore.You don’t have to perform your pain to be believed. You don’t have to keep carrying the weight of what they refused to take responsibility for.

You can set it down now. Let them tell their story. You can stand in your truth.

That’s your power.

If this message met you in the middle of something tender… I hope it reminded you:

You are not alone. You are not crazy. You are not what they said you were.

You’re healing. You’re remembering.

And you’re stronger than they’ll ever admit.

Let’s talk about it when you’re ready.

In light, love & peaceful stillness,

Dray